You need to
Figure out the issues in your relationship
Every relationship has problems. And they lead to arguments — which often don’t go anywhere and just make things worse.
One solution is couples therapy. It’s a very good solution, especially if you want to solve things by getting divorced.
Get your lover back now permanently
Winning your ex back isn’t really the big deal. The hard part is keeping them. The secret of how to keep your ex in a relationship once you get her back is to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction from now on. You can achieve that by not making the same old mistakes that you used to (e.g. taking her for granted, being clingy and needy, being jealous and controlling, not making her feel feminine and girly in your presence) and being a new, improved man who now makes her feel what she always wanted to feel with you.
It's really hard trying to endure the issues
- YOU ARE COMMITTED,
- LOVE YOUR PARTNER
- AND WANT YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO WORK